Yearning for a story
July 3rd, 2008
I woke up in the morning not just with these sweet memories. Sweet memories hardly ever wake you up. I woke up thinking about our, as in our generation's, apparent lack of imagination and creativity. I was wondering, if we are ever called upon to do so, would we have a good story to tell ? It is human to hark upon imagination when our experiences are not good enough. But imagination needs a foundation to grow upon. While my grandfather's generation had religion and social boundaries and superstitions to provide them with a framework within which their imagination could thrive, hardly anything is left to imagination now. Whatever is left is hardly innocent and mostly drab. In the tech savvy world of today, incredibility is associated with the next big thing in mobile communication. And since we have learned to be skeptical about our own incredulity, it's just not good enough. Social and economic freedom have made cynics out of us. In a huge sense it's obviously good, but in a small way it's bad.
It's bad in the eyes of the boy who sat entranced when the 32 statuettes enlivened to dance in the royal courts of Vikramaditya. It's slightly sad that the ponds of yesteryear which supplied an endless stream of wicked witches and haunted trees has gone dry. It's sad that the castles which beheld the most opulent of dances and the arenas which hosted the most brilliant of wars and the daring knights and the stately beautiful princesses and the conniving stepmothers and the obedient sons and the innocent daughters and the helpful dwarfs, they have all withered against the onslaught of time. I distinctly remember this line my grandfather beat to death: "Din beete, hafte beete, mahine beete, saal beet gaye" (days and weeks and months and years went past). And I realize it only now.
Very true, but ankit atleast u r realising it, most of us are so busy in doing all the worthless things that will hardly be remembered by anyone.......
Grandparents from both of my parents side passed away even before I was born. I always wanted to hear a story from a grand parent. But....
It is very true that our imagination has been restricted by the fast pacing tech world. But definitely once U or me - when we see our children or our grandchildren somehow we would develop the capacity to see into the eyes of that lil child and narrate a great story.... 🙂
I bet, atleast you would do good
I doubt if it is as bad as we fear, may be I merely hope that it is not! It was my grandmother (mom's mom) for me. Only in my undergrad did I come to know that my mom heard all her stories from her own grandfather, and grew up thinking that her mother had little to tell.
I have a feeling that it may be meant to be that way. After raising a generation, they must have got the confidence that parents, often visibly, lack. That probably governed all the interactions that we fondly remember about our childhood.
All this depends on whether our parents respected our grandparents or not. Ours, apparently, did, so it appears a 'given' for us. I realized its importance only after comparing my experiences with those of some cousins, whose, to some extent, didn't! May be our true test comes when we face that choice, "Do we believe that we know better than our parents?" Scary thought, to begin a long weekend with!
I realize it everyday damn-it although there was no one to tell me stories! Weird but whenever I have a dream, I always dream in or around the place where I grew up and the freaky thing is that I moved away from that place when I was barely 13 years old!